Lena,
Don't pay attention to RB or Peapod. They like to pull chains whenever possible and use the "gang" mentality whenever possible.
Just to let you know, there are many of us on this forum who support your position and know the truth with regards to this discussion. RB and Pea don't have children so they don't know anything about parenthood and the sacrifices that parents are willing to make for their children. They believe that if they wouldn't be able to make the sacrifices that nobody could.
Sometimes RB is willing to debate using logic and reason, but I haven't seen Pea in a meaningful debate yet. If she starts to feel threatened she will use her favorite icon( 8O or :roll: ), followed shortly by personal attacks.
If the situation ever arises that they may disagree with each other, they use personal messages so that no one else can see the disagreement. They like to keep a unified front.
Keep the faith, some of us have perservered through the personal attacks and try to speak the truth.