There is a parable: "Follow the advice of him that makes you cry and weep, rather than the advice of the one who makes you laugh."
Laughing is good for one's health, a good laugh, a happy laugh, a joyous laugh, but, not
a laugh at someone else's expense.
The one who will make you cry and weep, almost is sincere and truthful, but man does not like the bitter truth.
Crying and weeping is a natural emotion, but shouldn't happen when caused by someone else, but when one crys for someone else
talloola, and whatever is your true personality,
My true personality comes out through my fingers as I type.
Cry and weep for your fate, son of Adam (and daughter of Adam); be ready for the world that you try to forget about, and try to neglect, but it is inevitable.
I don't cry and weep for myself, and I cherish my world, without neglect, I love my earth.
You want to hear jokes and laugh, there are many many of such a stuff elsewhere.
I am not a 'joke' lover, but I see the funny side of life many times, people are funny,
and animals are funny, they make me laugh with their actions, not jokes.
While in the Quran 53: 59- 62
أَفَمِنْ هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ تَعْجَبُونَ . وَتَضْحَكُونَ وَلَا تَبْكُونَ . وَأَنتُمْ سَامِدُونَ . فَاسْجُدُوا لِلَّهِ وَاعْبُدُوا*
The explanation:
(Do you [unbelievers] then marvel at this statement [of the sending forth of your souls to the afterlife]?
I am only an unbeliever in 'what' you believe in, but I am a believer in many other wonderful things here on this earth.
And do you laugh, but not weep?
How about a smile, and a tear, as that can happen together in happiness.
While you are constant [in your falsehood and idolatry]!?
So bow yourselves before God [with admission], and serve Him [alone!] )
That would be unatural for me to do such things, and I would not be true to myself.
We are very different , but not entirely, and we should like and respect each other
for those differences and similarities.