I certainly wouldn't deny the validity of your experiences, obviously some significant things happened to you, and without knowing a whole lot more about what they were there's not much I can say about them. Recognize, however, that there were two things going on: things were happening to you, and you were interpreting them in a particular way. And now a third thing has happened: you're remembering them in a particular way long after the events, and memory is subject to editing and revision and reconstruction. If from that interpretation and memory you conclude that quantum theory is bridging the gap between orthodox science and a mystic's view of things, then I would argue that your interpretation is not correct and probably your memory isn't either, because quantum theory is not doing that. I'd immediately agree that human beliefs and dispositions influence outcomes, but that's because they affect how humans behave, not because there's some link between human consciousness and the behaviour of things at the quantum scale.