That's an interesting thought though. Women all the time can admit when another women is sexy, but men seem to have a problem with that. I say Pitt and Depp are both hunks of the highest caliber. If there were a movie of my life, I'd want Depp to play my part![]()
People around me have this tendency, perfect strangers even, to divulge their deepest darkest secrets to me for no apparent reason. I don't count the internet of course, everyone tends to end up a bit loose with their info on here, but I mean face to face, real world encounters. And the issue you bring up is one that I've had men discuss with me before. I've been asked on two separate occasions if I thought that thinking male actors were sexy makes a man gay. We're talking scared, worried men, who were honestly upset because they found the sight of a well muscled man to be aesthetically pleasing. I think that's why a lot of men either don't allow themselves to look with an eye of appreciation, or if they do, don't talk about it.
Of course, I don't think it makes a man gay to appreciate the male physique, any more than it makes a rancher bestial to appreciate what a good horse looks like.