there are so so many divorces now, which brings in lawyers and court battles for the rights of husbands
and wives, and child support etc., I can just imagine the mess when 'with polygamy being legal', (which
I hope, never), families split up, one husband, four or five wives, ten children, and the courts have
to deal with that.
men, (mostly men anyway), being told to pay child support to four different women for their children, as
it is now many can't, won't, just don't pay the support, and when the money is spread around four
different sets of children, they will each get about $20.00 each, so that he can have enough to buy
his groceries and pay his rent. What a mess, but then of course he had allready gathered a couple
more women to marry and continue the plan.
the type of living arrangements and rules in a place like bountiful would never allow any woman to go
to the courts for assistance because the 'group' is her law, she was born there, knows nothing else,
and has been brainwashed and ordered 'what' to do, as the group 'is' her law.
the only way she can be free is to 'escape', and as soon as that word has to be used, it is automatically
a miserable situation.
women 'like me and many others', having being born here etc., would put up with multiple wives in the house about as much as
we would put up with a bees nest in the house.
the war that would go on behind those closed doors would equal world war three.
if polygamy was legal, i'm sure for a while 'some' would go for it, kind of cool doncha think? lol
if might be a fad for a few years till there was enough history to show what a bad idea it is.
i'm sure there are thousands of men who would love the idea, pick and choose between women he wants to
have sex with on any given night, feel like a blonde today, and a red head tomorrow, but just noticing
the brunette, (getting kind of old), don't want her any more, but the flip side of that is, 'how' many
men talk of marriage as a trap, so why on earth would they get into that big of a trap.
a man with a good amount of common sense, will know how hard it is to get thru
life with 'one' wife, and two or three kids, and would never want to get involved with 3 or 4 more,
and if they do, make it one at a time,(like they do now), not all at the same time.
its all about screwing around, so just get into an arrangement that is 'open', and screw around all
you want till that fad wears off, then move on to whatever you want next, but under the approval of
our canadian government, and not outside the law.
there are all kinds of people who do all kinds of things in life that the mainstream would not do,
that is the freedoms we have in this country, go for it, but keep your lifestyle within the law,
and just because a few want that lifestyle, doesn't mean it should be made legal.
at least thats how I see it.