Being positive is the answer because you are dealing with it. As long as you understand things ae what they are, you can get to the next step regardless. I had the bladder operation and so far things are good no return but I will have to have an exploritory every three months for a year and twice a year after that for a few more. The eye thing I learned today is from cholesterol being too high combined with sugar levels in the blood getting too high that means I will have to make changes, the good news is the vision will return hopefully to about 90% and that is a lot better than I hoped. Thank you for the information, and for sure a whole lot changes when you are confronted with the reality of health changes,