Praxius, first off looking into someones eyes is a modern form of civilised communication skills. When you have something of value to say to some one looking at them in the eyes confirms sincerity as well agreement.
I disagree. If you have something important to tell me, you don't need to stare into my eyes to tell me. If you do it for too long, I'll either tell you to stop because you're freaking me out, or I might reflex-punch you out.
Looking or staring at anything has nothing to do with communication (Unless you're reading something like this... but you're not staring at me) .... vocal/sound, and sign language are. I'm telling you straight forward and honestly, that if you or anybody else begins to stare me down or continually look into my eyes, something's going to happen. You might as well be grabbing me by the penis and stroking gently.... I will be equally uncomfortable and you will be warned.
A person with a two face personality will look at a completely different direction rather than the person they are talking with, not helping one create a bond with the person they are talking with. I have spend 35 years in sales and made an excellent ban ch of doe looking at people right in the eyes. And as for your assertion that she is a criminal, man the poor woman has not seen a lawyer for two years who are you to prejudice with out knowing the full story, I certainly hope you will never have to serve in a jury.
The world would certainly be a safer place, you are correct.
But what you are claiming by your explaination is that I must be a two faced person/personality because I don't look at you. That is a generic and absolutely incorrect statement. You may believe it to be true, but that doesn't make it true. Anybody who knows me personally and directly know that I'm one of the more trusting people, as well as generous as they have met.... to the point where I'll let myself be taken advantage of before I do the same to others.
You may considder that because I do not look into your eyes that I am a two faced person who shouldn't be trusted..... I considder your continual staring at me as intimidating, a challenge, intrusive, arrogant and a test of your attempt of dominance over a conversation. I feel this towards anybody and if I do the same thing, then I feel I am doing the above to the person I am talking to, therefore I do not stare at people for a long period of time.
Believe me, if I am serious about something, or I feel you are in the wrong, you will know I am staring at you, and you will be very aware of my seriousness. But unless the situation like that arises, I have no need to be glaring at people.
Added:
I was in customer service for a few years myself, and I know that looking into people's eyes is promoted for good sales etc... but I always disagreed with this principle. It maybe good for winning sales from clients and customers, and it may make you seem like you are sure of what you say when you talk, but that's sales/profit reasoning.... not social. (Attempt to dominate the conversation and make the other person not sure.... AKA: attempt to make them rely and trust in what you say through visual domination.)
I usually do not trust people who stare me down, then I would over someone who did the same as I.