well now the big twist is...she apparently consented and then regretted it
In growing up, and becoming adults we continue to learn the difference between right and wrong (as well as consequences)
and reactions to any actions...
There are many different aspects of this sad story and like I wrote in posts above, on another aspect ( the possibility that antidepressants adverse reactions caused the ideation and outcome of suicide) I feel that it is imperative these tragic stories bring lessons to the public. Obviously nothing will bring this lovely girl's life back, so the least we can do is not let her tragic demise go away without taking something to help others.
It is cases like this where I personally am glad that the justice system allows youths to be tried differently.
On an adult level, we all know that a drunk person is not in the position to make good judgement calls however adults are and need to be held accountable for making a bad call (DUI) ....
When we look at the allegation (in this case) allegedly she was drunk and any consent in any choice would have been looked at by an adult as ridiculous.
The boys in this case, acted like bad boys where it would be clear that they made horrible judgement calls as well. (sober or not) ..
The behavior in so many teens surrounding this case is deplorable, and one would wonder what kind of children they were to have become such mean spirited teens who would exibit such hateful behavior against another peer. (the boys and the bullies)
In any case, because this has been such a high profile case where the loss of a young girl who took her own life where so many levels of society failed her, could all be blamed and put on the plate of these boys.
I do not condone their behavior in any aspect however I see that these boys could be used as the scapegoat where punishing them (potentially as adults) could be the end result so to alleviate the responsibility of many different areas of society so to ignore and never look at other factors who in my opinion were more to blame...where the scapegoats will distract.. These boys arent the only ones who should be punished.
In other words, the focus on the boys, will stunt society's potential learning by protecting so many other areas like never exploring whether antipharmaceuticals were being taken or withdrawn from, where the possibility of an adverse reactions led the girl to take her life. The school's blind eye for not looking into what was going on with the student body by using the poor excuse of not wanting to interfere with law enforcement. The families of the boys, and every bully who didnt know what was going on......The mental healthcare system for not recognizing the seriousness of the issue ..
There are so many different aspects of how we can learn from this tragedy and I would hate to see teenage boys hold the entire bag by distracting away the responsibilty of so many adults in so many other areas.