@ Sal:
You've said a lot, but in the end, it really comes down to a few issue including personal responsibility and expectations that the gvt is all things to all people under all circumstances. We can't legislate responsible parenting, nor would we see social services stepping in and taking kids from every dysfunctional family environment.
I also couldn't help notice the comment about kids having to work to get through school: the family environment being one issue unto itself, I have to ask the question about what are these kids spending the money they have earned on?... Food for home? Basic clothing items?... In the back of my mind, I can't help but notice that there are few kids that aren't walking around with iPods and iPhones.
Same can be said about teenage pregnancy... Sad to understand that it is an issue that has been around for decades, but other than the personal responsibility issue, what do we do?.. I can't imagine that gvt institute a program of chastity belts - so that leaves us with the hormonally charged kids understand the ramifications of their actions.
I know that the above is likely an over generalization, but the question still needs to be asked.
Last point; the comment about ghetto building... I do agree that this potentially exists (likely), but these suggestions are brought forth as functional suggestions targeted at motivating people to get away from that communal environment and take control of their own lives... As it stands, the existing system is clearly of limited effectiveness in that we have an entire demographic that represents generations of welfare recipients...
I can't imagine that anyone would support that ends
Not proud of it, hate it, but defiant, filled with anger. Yes.
Whose fault is that, and more importantly, who can actually change that situation?
They are not better off, trust me. It is a filthy poverty filled, violent environment.
You'd think that this reality would be enough to force a change to the delivery of the services in the system
I know that you do (have sympathy and support, as do I) and I absolutely agree that the numbers of those who abuse the system are likely staggering. But I think we have to be really careful about the optics that come from these types of stories. And part of it is that the bureaucracy of the system itself is so mangled that it causes problems in and of itself.
Thanks SLM; I appreciate the starting comment... I've never been accused of being PC nor shying away from asking the hard questions in a blunt manner (although I am improving).
I try to boil things down to the lowest common denominator and in the simplest terms, that said, let me pose my position this way:
IF the welfare system didn't exist and the responsibility was assumed by family members (Mom, Dad, bro or sis)... Would we likely see this same mentality or 'system' in practice?
Direct question to you: If your kids needed this help (in my mythical system of family-based assistance), would you suggest that they move home and work with them to move forward or would you write endless cheques to fund them to spare them the social stigma of living in mom's basement?
In the end, I see a huge difference between a hand-up and a hand-out
Two stories from the front line worker I know:
Guy one is a landed immigrant who, when asked as part of the interview process what his retirement plan was, responded with "The government of Canada." He received assistance.
That is sooo harsh.
Makes me really angry to be honest.
Do you know why the second guy didn't? Because there is an entrenched rule about contributing partners leaving the country and automatic denial of assistance if one does. Which does make sense, it would be very easy for people to work in a foreign country build some wealth and return while their partner/spouse remains behind to hold their place within this nation. But there is no room set up for any kind of leeway in processing an individual situation like that.
I can see the problem here (for the guy) but also understand the gvt's position.
Too bad, you'd think that the system would be set up to assist people like that, but perhaps the optics from gvt was that a portion of the funds would go to the mom heading back to help the daughter.. (caveat: Sad case, but I would ask where is the assistance from the gvt of the nation where the daughter is located?)