It was never a dream, it was knowledge she was aware of from a very young age. Never marrying was a solution solely in her hands. While I did not take her premonitions too seriously, I did not either encourage or discourage the wedding plans. We followed her wishes.
How sad,because she was perfectly content to continue the common-law arrangement she was already in. 30 years ago, this was not viewed as it is now. Also, then like now, premonitions were not viewed seriously. Pretty hard for a young woman to stand by instinct when confronted by contemptous dismissal or disbelief. It was a horrible way to find her premonitions were valid.[/QUOTE
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thats right, an amazing coincidence, I don't believe in premonitions at all.
its impossible for anyone to know anything about what will happen to them in the future, with
exceptions of course to 'planned' events, and there is no guarantee even in those, till they happen,
as anything can happen to anyone at any time, just being in the wrong place at the wrong time,
as had happened to many.
what happened to her was sad, but I don't believe it had anything to do with anything that you
describe, and there was no need for contemptous dismissal or anything of the kind, either believe
her or don't, simple.
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No such thing as coincidence. Yes, there are planned events and pacts made with others, which can be reneged on by either party at any time. The difference between your belief and what I have found, is there are many events and pacts, entered into before we even make an appearance in this life.
Evolution does not just occur on the physical level. We are portions of all that exists, and we are one of the many aware species that inhabit this universe or this world. By the way she wasn't the driver, nor was the car hers so she didn't commit suicide to prove her point.
Oh and of course, we choose what proofs or beliefs, we will accept with regards to this reality before hand. Frankly, I am not one of those who feel, we live in chaos with no control whatever over our circumstances.
I don't think we live in chaos either, we have lots of control over our choices in life, but no
idea of what could happen or not happen. we don't know if a lunatic is going to jump in front
of us at any time and shoot us in the head, but we do have a stable level of calm each day we get
up to 'take the chance', it is our choice, or just stay in bed all day.
I can dismiss any idea I might carry with me that something awful could happen, just by knowing it is
possible, but not likely, i'm much more interested in going my way, in my way, in spite of those possibilities, that is
how I can be happy, and not by living with the idea that I want to save myself, so I will hide in the
house, jeesh, the roof could fall in when a plane crashes into it at 12:00 p.m. just when I walk into
the house, or I could have chosen a different house to buy, or I could have lived out in the country, or in or in a bomb shelter, or or or or.