Do you love me ?

[talloola]

you've got lots of support here China, you'll be fine,
just stay in touch.

I don't easily say 'I love you' to anybody, outside of
my family, so I will
just be here for you whenever you need support, take care.

 

[china]

Spade .

Dear China,
Do I love thee? Crikey, you missed my birthday, you didn't drop by at Xmas with a present for me or the missus, and you never write. Plus, you're always too busy Pole dancing to remember your Canadian cousins.
Spade

I thank you for the correct observation .

Love thee? Hmmmm...
Regards,
Spade
PS
Gifts of money sent c/o Aether Island General Delivery may persuade me otherwise

.how much ? though I,m not buying love .

 

[Ron in Regina]

China, where you're at now (or where as of three day ago anyway),
we've all been there and we've all gotten through/by it in our own
ways.....as you will too.

You have my empathy in this time when feelings are still sharp, but
time will pass, and this will too.

Hang in there China. Good things come to good people. This will
work itself out as all things do eventually, and you'll be stronger for
the experience....though I'm sure it doesn't feel like it at this point.

 

[Cliffy]

Lots of sillycibin mushrooms can also be very helpful at times like this. Since you are in Auzzie land, you might look up a cane toad or two. Tends to reset the programming in the ol' noggin.

 

[china]

To all of you above ,thanks from my heart .\
I have made up my mind.I'm coming home .

 

[gerryh]

there goes the neighbourhood

 

[china]

there goes the neighbourhood
[/quote
One way or another you 'll know who I am .

 

[Kreskin]

Hang in there China. Life has a way of throwing curve balls. One of these days you'll hit one out of the park.

 

[china]

Ron in Regina

China, where you're at now (or where as of three day ago anyway),
we've all been there and we've all gotten through/by it in our own
ways.....as you will too.

You have my empathy in this time when feelings are still sharp, but
time will pass, and this will too.

Hang in there China. Good things come to good people. This will
work itself out as all things do eventually, and you'll be stronger for
the experience....though I'm sure it doesn't feel like it at this point.

Thanks Ron for your sound advices .Funny thing is that we allready know that very schemat of life but in most cases we needbe told by someone else in order to wake up and open up ones intelligence .

 

[Dexter Sinister]

I have made up my mind.I'm coming home .

Canada's a pretty big place china, where in Canada is home exactly? I'd be happy to meet you, maybe we can arrange for our paths to cross.

 

[El Barto]

there goes the neighbourhood

Many would have a party if you went to China hahahaha

 

[Avro]

To all of you above ,thanks from my heart .\
I have made up my mind.I'm coming home .

Leaving your kids behind?

 

[china]

Canada's a prettterey big place china, where in Canada is home exactly? I'd be happy to meet you, maybe we can arrange for our paths to cross. __________________________

Be happy Dexter to have our" paths cross"especially in Sask. We,ll see how it goes .
China

 

[china]

Leaving your kids behind?

My own daughter ,never ;the kids that I help financially will still be helped .

 

[Francis2004]

China, I wish you good luck and good fortune..

Believe it or not I have had to restart my life 3 times now and have just been thru a major life changing event myself.. However this is not new to me so I am used to these events and take them in stride.. It may sound strange to hear but when one has come near death three times it is easy to accept life is a daily blessing..

I am curious as to why you stated in your OP that you were coming back to Canada.. Must you return or is it just for emotional reasons ?

Business usually does not end because a wife has walked away..

Just curious..

Again, good luck..

Man you must really hate me.. I am the only one you did not answer.. :lol::lol:

Well good luck anyway..

 

[VanIsle]

My own daughter ,never ;the kids that I help financially will still be helped .

You can just up and leave the country with your daughter? In Canada that's called kidnapping unless she is of legal age and can make that decision for herself. You are now living in Australia are you not?

 

[china]

You can just up and leave the country with your daughter? In Canada that's called kidnapping unless she is of legal age and can make that decision for herself. You are now living in Australia are you not?

CoYou are correct .,I,m in Australia ? Kidnapping, that's where we differ .If my daughter was of leagal age and was capable of reasoning on a mature level and I took her away from here "domain", Kidnaping would be the case .But she is my 4 year old daughter who depends 100 % on me financialie and other wise. Beside Natalie is a Canadian Citizen- My wife is not.But I don,t think t is going to go that far

In Canada that's called kidnapping

Frankly I don,t give a dam what is called what in Canada.

 

[china]

Francis2004

I am curious as to why you stated in your OP that you were coming back to Canada..

Must you return or is it just for emotional reasons

?
I don't have to return but probabaly will -for awhile at least .
Business usually does not end because a wife has walked away..

You are correct re.business,wife is sorry,begs for forgivenes -we tought to forgive .

Man you must really hate me.. I am the only one you did not answer.. :lol::lol:

Man, you are wrong .

 

[china]

Curiosity
Thanks for the help offered; the offer is a help in its elf .But I' know that you know' that there is nothing to say or ask .I,m living from moment to moment ,and life takes care of all .THanks Curio ,love China

 

[Curiosity]

Dear China

You have the power within to make all the sensible moves and while you are obviously shaken by this event, it too will fade in emotional reaction and you
will find a new path to follow with renewed ideas and perhaps some freedom
at least from the sadness you are having right now.

You know all these things because you are one of the most strong people I know
and whatever decision you make for your future and your daughter's future will
be what you need to do.

Please stay in touch and share your plans with us so we can chat with you on
occasion. You are never alone. I doubt there is a person here who has not
gone through some trauma life seems to throw at us - and hopefully we are
better for it when it has been resolved. Stay well and think positively! Curio