That's right TenPenny & you wouldn't believe the enjoyment that can generate.
But it doesn't get your rocks off!8O
That's right TenPenny & you wouldn't believe the enjoyment that can generate.
"In public life, hypocrisy is a bigger crime than adultery."- Where did you find that little gem carved in stone.
Hypocrisy is actually more of a "trap" than a sin. We are pretty much 100% hypocrites to some degree, I quite often find myself cussing out someone for one thing or another, and then lo and behold a day or later I find myself daydreaming and doing exactly the same thing. I think all of us have "good" advise for people at one time or another, but don't follow it 100%.
Cliffy, there are evolutionary reasons for both men and women not to be monogamous. A man wants to spread his seed far and wide, into as many women as possible, so that his offspring’s will survive.
A woman on the other hand, wants to mate with as many men as possible, so that she would conceive and conceive with the best possible seed. This behavior is observed in nature in many species (e.g. in the species where the normal structure is dominant male and a herd of females, the females are observed having sex with other males on the sly). However, a woman’s adultery is usually well hidden. Because as you said, a woman wants a stable home for her offsprings.
While a man may leave his wife for his mistress, a woman is much less likely to do that, especially if he has children. However, there is no reason to suppose that adultery is any less common among women than among men.
This is true. All the ones I thought would be my life mate turned out to the other kind. :-(
With an over 50% divorce rate (and that doesn't count for broken common law relationships) I have to say it doesn't work for the majority.
I'm well aware of that. If we weren't so immature, it wouldn't affect our relationships. If we were taught from birth that multiple sexual partners has little to do with whether or not you love your partner, we wouldn't have all this hypocrisy.
You forgot one catagory, there are many of us, both sexes, who are like eagles or other types of birds and animals, who 'want' and 'treasure' fidelity and a
completely trusting life together, for the whole trip, and it is nice when we
find each other, but sad when one type is with the other.
Humans are angels trying to figure out what went wrong, trying to remember who they are. Your post here was perfectly placed.
I think that far too many people are selfish, both before and during marriage. Too many people put themselves first, and don't put the family first. My feeling is, if you decide to become a family, the good of the family should come before your personal wants.
It's got nothing to do with politics or religion, it has to do with selfishness.
Doesn't matter if you're talking about JFK, or Bill Clinton, or those two recent governors. Their problems were selfishness.
"In public life, hypocrisy is a bigger crime than adultery."- Where did you find that little gem carved in stone. Hypocrisy is actually more of a "trap" than a sin. We are pretty much 100% hypocrites to some degree, I quite often find myself cussing out someone for one thing or another, and then lo and behold a day or later I find myself daydreaming and doing exactly the same thing. I think all of us have "good" advise for people at one time or another, but don't follow it 100%.
Talloola, I think most of us desire monogamy, that is the social conditioning (I have been married to the same woman for 33 years now). However, the natural tendency of humans is not to be monogamous, and that is what Cliffy was referring to.
Because it is the natural tendency, that doesn’t mean that we have to give in to it. In a civilized society there are many things we do that are against our natural tendency E.g. we don’t defecate when we want to, where we want to (that would be the natural tendency).
I think you unknowingly answered your own question. :lol:
Depends on your political views. Are you liberal? You're no hypocrit if you are.
Conservative...BIG hypocrit.