Didn't Obama make the point last year that young men have a responsibility to the children they've fathered....and it seems to me that he did so in a way that, if he were white, he would have been called racist.
I heard that he said that, don't know about the racist part though because I didn't actually hear him.
But that is only half of it, both parties have an equal responsibility. If neither side can accept the responsibility then they must each take precautions to prevent it. These are things pounded into me and my generation, you make a child boy, you take responsibility, that was warning enough to avoid accidents.