...and take responsibility for everything in your life, even causing all the pain you have experienced.Especially the part of the journey where you have to "eat your pain".
Thirty years ago when I woke up in that hospital bed all busted up, I did not say, "why has this happened to me?" i said, "how did I create this?" Taking responsibility is a tremendous burden and a tremendous freedom. With nobody else to blame, we are faced with looking within, and introspection, the direction of the north represented by Bear in hibernation, is the only way to reconnect with ourselves and thus with the rest of life.