Exactly. Faith just on Sunday is not faith at all. In fact, I'd go so far as to suggest that the main reason the Church is in decline the past 30 years is the lack of faith of its membership who see their local parish as some sort of social club. They go there on Sunday, all dressed up, kids sparkling and clean. They join in the prayers and litanies, sing the hymns and than go for coffee in the parish hall. Afterwards they go home and clearly not one word of the Gospel has reached their hearts. Not one word of the homily has drifted into their minds.
They complain, of course, about Father preaching about things they find distasteful to consider. That seems the only time they pay attention!
They will proudly tell you they go to this or that parish. They will tell you how "nice" the Mass is, or they will complain because of the usage of incense, or not using incense; using Latin or not using Latin; altar girls or no altar girls...etc..etc...etc. They will moan when they are asked to contribute to a fund to maintain the very building they should be paying for anyway. They think the parish is some sort of magic place that is self-sustaining financially.
When the Diocese mentions the possiblity of closing the parish, oh how they bitch at that time! They complain because they have memories in the building. They complain because they had events in the building...etc...etc....etc..Heaven Forbid they financially contribute to keep the building open!
But live the faith of the parish they attend..God forbid they should do such a thing. One of my most annoying experiences is going to visit with people who proudly show me their "family" Bible which they have had for years and years and years. It saddens and annoys me because almost always the Bible looks brand new despite its age...
And the reasons people have for not being faithful in their Sunday attendance..sheesh. I could write a flipping book just on the excuses I've heard!!
So why is the Church in decline....because the people of the Church are in decline with their daily faith...
sorry to go off...a sore point with me