The harm to women and children in Bountiful is that they don't have a say in their own lives. Young women marry who they are told to marry or they are shunned by the "family". Young men are virtually chased out because marriages are planned years in advance by the
alders and young men are not included in those plans.
I was shunned by my family when I married her and by her family when we split up. If you think this kind of disfunction is limited to Mormons you need to give your head a shake. :roll: