If god is beyond words and understanding, why are we talking about it then? You think you can define god by debating that because it is debatable, it is not god. So after years of debate, you still have no god, just a huge pile of mental BS. That is pretty much a steaming pile of excrement.
There is only one way to experience god, according to your logic, and that is to sit in silence until your mind stops talking to itself and you literally put your ego to sleep - meditation. There are many ways to accomplish this, none of which requires religion or gurus.
The problem here is, my friend, that you write so many words to say very little and confuse everybody in the process. Part of your problem, is also your poor command of the English language and the use of a bunch of words that mean something to people living in India that mean absolutely nothing to us.
It is true that GOd is unimaginable and beyond our comprehension. However, God comes in human form to us. By seeing such human form you are seeing the invisible God only, since God is present in Him all the time. The identity mark is the wonderful divine knowledge preached by Him.God is impartial and comes in human form in every human generation.
God Himself comes down in human form to give practical proof for the existence of the unimaginable God through the exhibition of unimaginable events called as miracles. Jesus told that He has come down to fulfill, what is said in the scripture. Krishna also said that He came down since there is a necessity and He said that He will come down whenever there is a necessity. The necessity is the requirement of practical proof for the theoretical explanation of God given in the scripture. Then only, the validity comes. Science is valid since every concept in the book is experimentally proved in the laboratory. A student of science always attends the practical class in the laboratory after the theory class. The doubt about the existence of God is quite natural because there is every chance to doubt about the existence of anything, which is not understood even by intensive imagination. The human incarnation declares the existence of God after giving the practical proof. In fact, people experience the unimaginable events in their life, which indicate God. But, people do not care to analyze and remember God thereby.
Even if we dispose all the miracles as magic show without careful analysis, the existence of unimaginable boundary of universe, which can be realized by anybody at anytime, is a clear proof for existence of unimaginable entity called as God.