I do not think money was the problem. The diagnosis is. I understood waiting for funds or a cure was out of the question. She has very little time before any decision would be possible, never mind mounting a campaign for money.There are alternatives out there for treatment that might save her life. Unfortunately, they're not covered by insurance which makes them really expensive. There's a doctor in Texas who has quite a good history of curing stage 4 brain cancer using wholistic medicine. It's too bad she's taken this route. Maybe by using (what's the term when you ask people to raise money for a cause)....anyway, if she could raise the funds to be sent to the clinic, she may well be able to save her life. She's far too young to give up yet.
JMHO
However, if either you or anyone else wishes to do differently in the same situation, then it should be your choice...