Actually I listened to a couple of individuals (pro and con) side of this whole thing and the way the provincial government devised initially was not exactly how they have portrayed it from the conversation I heard. In fact, very few parents were actually consulted and there was a concern about the "age appropriateness" of what was being taught. (i.e. Don't think a 6 year old needs to know about masturbation - eventually yes, but not at 6!!) Lets give them the basics (vocabulary, good and bad touching) and let them be kids for heavens sakes!!
The one thing that disturbed me that the one individual (Pro) on the radio program I was listening to was that she stated categorically that "parents don't know what's best for their children therefore it was up to the school to ensure that they got the "correct" information and that pulling out of the current curriculum was regressive. I was appalled at the first part of that statement and the arrogance of it. Besides, how "regressive" could it be - has sex changed all that much? Are penis's and vagina's not in existence any more? Do STD's not still exist? The fact that she had no qualms in even stating that fact made me think that our education system is becoming more about propaganda rather than "education". And again, she stated that "MOST" 12 and 13 year olds were having sex. Again, I'm sure there are some that are, but to categorically state that all or most are having sex is in and of itself is ridiculous with stats based on assumptions that she cannot quantify. That should be a red flag for parents. I'm glad I don't have any children in the educational system today and I worry about those who are and will be in the future as I wouldn't want that lady (whomever she was) teaching my kid!!
While there may be parents who have difficulty discussing sex with their children, to so broadly apply it to "all" parents was extremely disturbing to me. I believe parents now-a-days (not like when I grew up) are far more liberal and open-minded and most likely have no qualms in discussing sex, along with correct names of body parts and where babies come from etc., etc. with their kids then mine ever were. And, if they didn't feel comfortable, they have access to materials or others individuals to ensure their kids get the appropriate information. Hey, but maybe I'm wrong; but the young parents I know don't seem to have an issue discussing such things with their kids. Are they the exception?
Are there parents on CC that have younger children and have you dealt with or are you dealing with this topic? Personally, I would want to review the curriculum before I would let my child in the class to ensure that what was being taught was appropriate and, was being taught by someone who is a (medical?) professional in this area and not a teacher.
Is anyone else here as disturbed by the "most" and "all" statements being made by individuals? Generalizations are quite disturbing and aren't particularly helpful to my mind.
My curious mind wants to know..... am I totally out to lunch?
JMHO
