Yeah, it is.
Sorry, son, but since the middle 1800s there has been exactly one conflict that was an existential threat to Canada and the U.S. And no, it wasn't WWII. Neither Germany nor Japan possessed the necessary technology nor industrial power to destroy or conquer North America.
It was the Cold War. And you and I had the ability and opportunity to sign up and do our part. Curious Cdn did. EagleSmack did. gopher did. Blackleaf did. I did.
It was a rough war. No medals, no adoring crowds. We maintained the pressure, and the readiness. The unofficial motto of SOCIII in western Germany was "Anytime, baby!" We held the line until the internal contradictions of the Soviet Union brought it crashing down.
Not everybody participated. It wasn't an "all hands on deck" situation like the World Wars were. I don't fault any man for not getting stuck in. And I don't fault any man for questioning whether this or that military decision, then or now, was the right one.
But all y'all fellas that didn't sign up owe those of us who did "pride of place" in discussions of military policies and politics. Not that you don't have a voice and a choice, just that the sort of common decency that you seem so concerned about means you let the ones who served have their say before you stick your oar in.
I don't mean this to be hostile or aggravating. I hope I didn't come off that way. But the choices we made give us the right to jump to the head of the queue.