Parents of dead soldier 'offended'
Any one who thinks Harper gives two ****s for the soldiers is dreaming.
Parents of dead soldier 'offended' by O'Connor's assertion on funeral costs
Meagan Fitzpatrick , CanWest News Service
Published: Thursday, May 31, 2007
OTTAWA - Prime Minister Stephen Harper ignored calls for Gordon O'Connor's resignation Wednesday after a military family disputed the defence minister's statement that his department pays full funeral costs for fallen soldiers.
The parents of Cpl. Matthew Dinning, killed by a roadside bomb in Afghanistan last year, say there were "offended" when they heard O'Connor make the assertion Monday in the House of Commons.
After media reports were published about another family which was having trouble getting compensated for funeral costs, the issue was raised in question period by the Liberals. The defence minister said when he took office he directed his department to pay full funeral costs and that "we have been doing it since I have been in office."
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"After reading these comments, my wife and I were offended and felt that our family's integrity was being called into question by Mr. O'Connor," Lincoln Dinning said at a press conference with his wife Laurie. The couple drove eight hours to Ottawa from Wingham, Ont., to go public with their story about how their requests for compensation have been ignored for months.
"We stand here today telling you that we have not been fully reimbursed for Matthew's funeral costs, despite that Mr. O' Connor stood up in the House of Commons and told the Canadian people the exact opposite," Dinning said.
The couple has received some money from the military -$5,600 - to pay the $12,000 funeral bill but several expense claims submitted by the family have not been addressed.
For example, the parents paid the $3,000 cost of holding the funeral in an arena, which was necessary to accommodate the 2,300 people who attended it, they explained. They would also like to be reimbursed for the grief counselling that the fallen soldier's mother is taking, which has so far totalled about $4,000 and continues. The family is not asking that the military pay for the grand total for the funeral. The parents paid for the reception held afterwards, for example, and are not expecting to be reimbursed.
Lincoln Dinning said he followed the proper channels and sent two letters, with receipts, to the appropriate military liaison officers and never heard back.
"We have been more than patient in waiting for replies from the Department of Defence and government," Dinning said.
The father, who was quite emotional at times during the press conference, said that helping families with the financial burdens brought on by the death of their loved one is a "no-brainer" and that there should be no "penny-pinching" over expenses.
"When I say funeral costs, I think when a person dies anything associated with that death is a funeral cost," he said.
Less than two hours before the Dinnings met with the media on Parliament Hill, O'Connor and Chief of Defence Staff Gen. Rick Hillier held their own hastily called press conference where they reiterated their "unwavering" support for the Canadian Forces and their families. Hillier promised to contact the Dinning family directly and to get to the bottom of why their letters went unanswered and O'Connor pledged to change the rules on covering funeral costs.