Not fair, Rev. We've had lots of "leaders" I not only didn't put in office, but hated. To be judged personally by the head of my country is inaccurate. What if an American called you a money grubbing liberal with no sense of social conscience just because that party won? It's hardly a description of you.
I have been blamed for the acts of a government that I didn't put in power. Like many of the Americans on this site, I explained my stance and and joined in the criticism of that government and the people who put them in power.
There are also nuances to that. Nobody who knows me would accuse me of being a Liberal supporter, but I do defend them if I think they are being treated unfairly, just as I criticise the NDP government here when they screw up. I've even defended the Conservatives because they signed a letter (along with the BQ and NDP) telling Martin to increase foreign aid. I've also criticised Canadians for not doing more to speak out on issues from the environment to trade to foreign aid.
The point stands though. Uncle does not like to have his country criticised, yet he has not taken a stance against the actions of that government. Far too few Americans have. In an age where one country on the planet puts itself above all others and attempts to dictate to the entire world, it is up to the citizens of that country to curb the actions of that government. The rest of us are not allowed to participate in their elections...well, unless you're rich enough to run a 527 campaign.
If he wants to learn more about Canada, all he has to do is ask.
If wants to stop hearing about how badly the USA behaves, all he has to do is change the government to one that acts according to international law.