If your relatives don't know, they'll find out when they get the letter requesting the money from the estate. And if there's no money, then it's done.
The only reason for 'harassment' it seems would be if the person had co-signed the loans (I don't know any of my student friends who didn't have co-signers). And then the person better be pretty aware of the loan IMO.
The only reason for 'harassment' it seems would be if the person had co-signed the loans (I don't know any of my student friends who didn't have co-signers). And then the person better be pretty aware of the loan IMO.