well... I feel dumb..
some how I was totally mislead.
the two pictures that they showed when they first announced the contest of the blonde gal and the dark haired guy were not contestants..

they were just there to advertise to people the whole contest.
turns out that they were indeed looking for 1 Male Bachelor and 3 female Bachelorettes out of the 20 men and 20 women...
but to be honest. the way they had it all set up it really did look like those two people were in the contest and not advertisements.
But I didn't clue in when they never gave details about who they were and their interest, etc.
wow do I feel so stupid.
ok I think I'm going to go quietly sit in the corner for a while as I feel so embarassed..