I don't know any single parent who has freely chosen to be a single parent. Most have had it foisted on them when the other walks out and abandons them.
It will never cease to amaze me that some have no qualms about criticizing them for someone else's actions.
Well, I have a 19 year old niece with a 1 year old son; she never finished grade 10, and has no particular desire to do anything. Her boyfriend now, he's 33, does not have a drivers license, and isn't the father of the kid.I think her ambition in life is to be a welfare mother. It's ****ing pathetic. She's not a victim, she's a volunteer.