When I was teaching, I usually taught in lower income areas. I, therefore, spent a large amount of money buying books as presents for the kids as well as pencil cases, fancy pencils, etc. I also made a big deal out of birthdays and special holidays.
I would also take some kids with problems out to dinner so that we could talk and each summer, I would make several trips to African Lion Safari with a car load of kids so that they could see the shows there, go on the air-conditioned bus to tour the grounds and see all the animals up close, get lunch and get a souvenir with which to remember their trip, all at my expense. No one asked me to do this but I knew that most of these kids would probably miss out on some of these things if I didn't help a bit.
I'm 56 now and on Disability due to severe injuries in 1991 and a brain aneurysm discovered in 2002. I was off work for 3 years due to the injuries in 1991 and the doctors didn't think I would ever be able to teach again but I proved them wrong. The aneurysm was too much though, so I "retired" with just over a year to go in 2002.
So, should I just give up and say I'm worthless because I'm old. Screw you, babes. I've worked harder in my life than you ever will and when I am a senior, any discount I receive, I will deserve. For years I worked 20 hour days, because I was a workaholic and I was always trying to find ways of reaching students who had learning problems. I took course after course, after school and in the summer...never content to settle for just being satisfactory. And I gave my kids all that I had to give. It has been extraordinarily hard for me to give up that life.
Someday, hopefully, when you are older, you will realize the foolishness of how you are speaking. I spoke that way once myself...then I grew up.