If you think that no combat should be engaged if there is even the slightest chance of killing civilians --- if you can't see the difference between attacks on the enemy that take civilian life and the purposeful targeting of civilians for the single-minded purpose of killing them then you are quite beyond help and far too naive and delicate to responsibly discuss this.
In fact I think it's really quite disingenuous on your part to act like you don't see the difference.
Listen Claudius, you are walking on thin ice.
Nowhere did I say anything that you are impying. Telling me that I'm too naive is not helping your cause, Don't do it again.
What is in question here is the negligent killing of civilians. That some civilians are going to be killed and injured is a given. When a houseful of civilians is bombed because it is suspected that an insurgent might be inside, it is pure crap and it helps nothing. The survivors will be future "terrorists". How many "terrorists" have been created in just that way?