So if you die just before u go into a confessional... does that mean your slate wasnt clean and you dont go to heaven? how often should we go? why dont we just wait till we're 50 or so and then wipe the slate whenever we feel like we're ill?
If you died on the way to confession, or died the day before you intended to go, then that would constitute confession by desire and you would be forgiven out of desire to make ammends. But, things like opportunity would be considered for as well. In our modern days and relative leisure compared to third world countries, God provides every opportunity to make it possible. If one died while an opportunity existed, then it would be left in the hands of God has no man can say for sure his state with God, but it doesn't look good if a person put off confession for TV's playoffs. The gist is if we are truly remorseful, then nothing else would occupy our minds and get in our way other than to seek reconciliation, especially since it is God we offend.
Some will wait a long time before confessing. But it should be remembered that part of that gift of redemption is that Jesus comes to bats for us as our celestial rep. It could be a certain person was destined to be judged on a specific day, but Jesus came in at the last minute to buy some more time for him has he is confident he may have a change of heart. It should always be remebered that nothing occurs, not even every breath we take without God's permission (grace).
Doing things when we feel like it may work for our temporal world where we have some control of events, but in the matter of Devine decision we have no control. Jesus prepared us by warning us to keep ourselves clean, and that he will do his part, but cannot guarantee he can do everything for us if we don't help ourselves. (Scripture: Fig Tree). So we are reminded in the Rosary's 3Rd decade of the Mystery of Light to "Repent, for the Kingdom of Heaven is at Hand.", meaning we never know when we are called.
There is provision for those who are ill to have a confessor at hand just by calling the nearest parish, and they can also receive the Sacrament of Extreme Unction at the same time, and for those at liberty any priest will be pleased to hear confession. There is
always one available.
AndyF