Ski instructor held tot's ***** to help him pee

[Johnnny]

I have no idea what you're talking about here.

Why not just say.

Hey lady i helped your kid take a piss and this was the first time, could you maybe potty train your kid or come up with a solution. I dont feel comfortable touching a minors *****.

Thanks lady

End of story

ive said this in multiple posts before. it could have been over before it got this far.

 

[petros]

The article doesn't say anything about multiple layers. Even the lawyer says there are some real triable issues regarding intent.

Yeah it does. Put on a ski suit and try to piss.

 

[Johnnny]

Yeah it does. Put on a ski suit and try to piss.

It said he put his hand into his snow suite, he didnt hold it with the layers between it.

 

[CDNBear]

Why not just say.

Hey lady i helped your kid take a piss and this was the first time, could you maybe potty train your kid or come up with a solution. I dont feel comfortable touching a minors *****.

Thanks lady

End of story

ive said this in multiple posts before. it could have been over before it got this far.

But that's not what your comment implies.

Your comment "Why hadnt the instructor not been so forth coming if the issue is benign?". Makes it sound like he was hiding something.

Given all the other evidence. It's more likely he didn't think it was an issue. As far as I know, he made no attempt to hide his actions. Likely because he felt they weren't criminal.

 

[Johnnny]

Safe Body Rule

https://www.scanva.org/support-for-parents/parent-resource-center-2/inappropriate-touching/

Teach the “Safe Body Rule.” Rather than expect your children to judge a touch only by how it makes them feel (“good” or “bad”), give them a solid rule that they can follow. Using the “Safe Body Rule”, teach them it is NOT okay for anyone to touch their private parts, or what is covered by their swimsuits. It is easier for a child to follow a rule and they will more immediately recognize a “bad touch” if they have this guideline in mind.

 

[petros]

It said he put his hand into his snow suite, he didnt hold it with the layers between it.

Do you snowmobile? Even at my age I have to do a f-cking dance to with zippers zipping and buttons buttoning not to mention flaps or wasteband superbands in the way.

 

[Johnnny]

Gerryh im not going to insult you because you insulted me for being an alcohalic. You have your own demons and i dont need to throw them in your face to make an argument.

Do you snowmobile? Even at my age I have to do a f-cking dance to with zippers zipping and buttons buttoning not to mention flaps or wasteband superbands in the way.

But let the kid hold his own, is what im saying

 

[petros]

Safe Body Rule

https://www.scanva.org/support-for-parents/parent-resource-center-2/inappropriate-touching/

It's okay to drop your kids off at daycare with a sack of Huggies and expect them to be use but bad to drop your kid off wrapped up like burrito for ski lessons and not expecting them to help you kid. WTF?

 

[Johnnny]

It's okay to drop your kids off at daycare with a sack of Huggies and expect them to be use but bad to drop your kid off wrapped up like burrito for ski lessons and not expecting them to help you kid. WTF?

Aren't the people at day cares trained to deal with that and screened? Im not sure....

 

[petros]

But let the kid hold his own, is what im saying

And if he could not hold it himself? Let it run down his leg and then just dump his boot?

Aren't the people at day cares trained to deal with that and screened? Im not sure....

Ah ha! Double standards?

 

[Johnnny]

And if he could hold it himself? Let it run down his leg and then just dump his boot?

Yes and then send him home. Kids piss themselves in public all the time and no one bats an eye cause there kids...

And if he could hold it himself? Let it run down his leg and then just dump his boot?



Ah ha! Double standards?

Are both hired off the street? I know child and youth workers have to go to school to be qualified to work in that field. Its not a double standard the doctor looks at your ***** to make sure there is nothing wrong. Thats because hes not some chump off the streets, they went got the required background checks and education to be making those heavy choices.

 

[CDNBear]

Aren't the people at day cares trained to deal with that and screened? Im not sure....

Not always.

So let me get this straight. You want preschoolers and babies to look after their own bathroom needs, if the daycare provider is male?

Are both hired off the street?

He's hardly "hired off the street".

Over 30 years on the job, not a single complaint.

 

[Johnnny]

Not always.

So let me get this straight. You want preschoolers and babies to look after their own bathroom needs, if the daycare provider is male?

No id want my kids to be around someone who has had the education, background checks and the sort required to deal with children. Not someone who gets a job through Kijiji and then takes it upon themselves to do something they arent trained for.

30 years. Did he go to school to be a ski instructor dealing with the sensitivities of children? He was hired from off the street, 30 years ago.

 

[CDNBear]

No id want my kids to be around someone who has had the education, background checks and the sort required to deal with children. Not someone who gets a job through Kijiji and then takes it upon themselves to do something they arent trained for.

30 years. Did he go to school to be a ski instructor dealing with the sensitivities of children? He was hired from off the street, 30 years ago.

So let me get this straight. You want preschoolers and babies to look after their own bathroom needs, if the daycare provider is male?

 

[Johnnny]

CDNbear thanks for not insulting me even though we dont agree.

So let me get this straight. You want preschoolers and babies to look after their own bathroom needs, if the daycare provider is male?

im not talking about the guys "Sex", im saying he isnt qualified to do these kinds of things. He is no different than the guy who is walking down the street now, but he is different from doctors and child and youth workers who are trained to deal with that thing.

If there is proof the ski instructor had training to deal with these sensitivities then i will retract everything i said

 

[petros]

Yes and then send him home. Kids piss themselves in public all the time and no one bats an eye cause there kids...

Why damage the kid for life embarrassing the f-ck out of him at ski lessons? He could have been the next Steve Podborski but you'd rather he grow up to be Nancy Greene.

 

[Johnnny]

Why damage the kid for life embarrassing the f-ck out of him at ski lessons? He could have been the next Steve Podborski but you'd rather he grow up to be Nancy Greene.

The ski instructor embarrassed him by letting it continue and then having it explode like this.
Kids piss their pants all the time, adults dont care. We all pissed ourselves and the bed growing up and we all ended up fine

 

[CDNBear]

im not talking about the guys "Sex", im saying he isnt qualified to do these kinds of things.

What a moronic statement.

He is no different than the guy who is walking down the street now, but he is different from doctors and child and youth workers who are trained to deal with that thing.

Followed by another.

If there is proof the ski instructor had training to deal with these sensitivities then i will retract everything i said

He was born with a penls, taught young women and boys for over 30 years. That makes him qualified to help a kid take a leak.

I didn't need to take a course to learn how to take a leak, nor did I need a course to teach me to help my kids. You're wandering off into the realm of absurdity with your present course of excuses.

 

[Johnnny]

What a moronic statement.

Followed by another.

He was born with a penls, taught young women and boys for over 30 years. That makes him qualified to help a kid take a leak.

I didn't need to take a course to learn how to take a leak, nor did I need a course to teach me to help my kids. You're wandering off into the realm of absurdity with your present course of excuses.

i dont agree. That dont make me stupid neither, im far from being anything near B00mer

 

[petros]

The ski instructor embarrassed him by letting it continue and then having it explode like this.
Kids piss their pants all the time, adults dont care. We all pissed ourselves and the bed growing up and we all ended up fine

Yeah, we do care. Good parents do anyway. Bedwetting and childhood PTSD are linked. Why make it worse?