yeah, constructive criticism is good, but the word stupid doesn't ever fit into that thought, the
things you mentioned are 'mistakes', and 'wrong decisions', by plAyers, doesn't make them stupid,
gmes are won and lost sometimes on a mistake by a goalie or any other player, none of them are stupid,
or they would not have made the team to begin with.
You're right, I probably misspoke, never meant the player was stupid, just the misplay. I do stupid things myself sometimes but I don't think they necessarily make me a bad person.