no it doesn't and that is what I am saying, it is not only poverty that contributes to obesity for some parts of our population, but there are deep psychological components involved for some people as well.
Now I'm curious, what kind of psychological components that exist for those that do have access to alternatives?
actually many of them feed themselves in the corner stores,
That's a choice Sal (assuming that they have access to a grocer)
It is not a choice when one has been raised that way and believes what has been told to them, no different than you or me. They must break free from that mind set or stay enslaved.
C'mon.. Are you saying that some kids are told that they can only turn to fast food outlets or convenience stores?
yes I see that.

I just do not agree with it.
We are probably best to just agree to disagree
I agree with that, but then the hand up has to be given and the existence of the problem can not be denied just because it is not our reality.
A fine line between a hand-up and perpetuating full-on dependency
That is part of the problem. People who have it good want to project their experience onto someone else who comes from a different world with different skills levels, and differing education and mental health and colour and background. We are not all the same.
I don't know a single person that hasn't experienced a broad spectrum of economic scenarios all the way from well off to living on Ramen noodles many times a week.
You're assuming that people can't learn or adapt without someone leading them by the nose
they are but their survival is at home where things are not so good. They come to school and I know teachers that spend an hour diffusing just one kid who has had no breakfast and watched dad punch mum through the wall last night. Then the parents do drugs together and peace reigns for a few hours. That is their tiny reality. Some kids beg teachers to take them home with them...they beg them. Burn out in those schools is over the top.
A tragic scenario, but at the extreme risk of sounding heartless, what is society to do?
Short of removing the kids from the home and spaying/neutering the bio parents, how is society to respond?
no they don't people think it is her fault and there is not much money to hand out or cheap housing to be given so they get sent with a few food vouchers to hold them over and told where social services are that's it baby...hope ya cope and see ya later... and the church kitchens are over run...even in my rich city...
You are generalizing, but lets also not forget that decisions were/are made by the mom and dad and there are consequences. To me, it absolutely defies logic how someone can make a conscious decision to have a family when they cannot functionally afford one.
.. And yes, I get it - there are a ton of unplanned pregnancies, but if you can't afford a box of these for $3.99 for the night, then what would make someone think that a kid is more affordable
I get why people look the other way, I couldn't handle it either. I tried to make their small interaction with me as pleasant as I could, to look them in the eye and acknowledge their humanity even if only briefly...but in the end, it doesn't do much.
I, on the other hand have seen first-hand a man pay for all the groceries for a young mother standing in line beside him...
Many times people coming out of Safeway with a couple extra bags of milk, cheese, bread and fruit and drop it in a strangers lap.