The New Face of Family Life

petros

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My grandma literally rode to and from the one room school house on horseback. And we were in the museum this summer with my mother-in-law when the kids started laughing at a horse drawn caboose with a little stove in it to warm it. "Who would ride in something like that?" To which my m.i.l. pointed out it's how her family had traveled in the winter when she was a child. She recounted her tale of theirs tipping over on the way to church when it fell through the crust of an especially deep snow. She told them of her fear as her father jumped atop it, flung the door open, and yanked them all out to get them free of the coals spilling out of the stove. My kids were dumbstruck. Frankly, I was dumbstruck.



Oh my gawd, that would have been so cool, to be able to afford steak. We didn't often keep our cows. And if we did, steak was a rare luxury, as butchering is cheaper done into roasts, and sliced roast stretches further for a family than steak does per ounce. Plus the meat we did keep was usually from downed cows, so the meat wasn't as good. Broken legs, frozen hooves, stuff like that stresses the steer or cow and makes for tougher meat that you need to slow cook.

My parents must have been the same generation as your grandparents.

You obviously know the taste difference between strictly pasture grazed beef and alfalfa/grain feed beef. Do you think people today would eat it?

but my daughter is twelve now.....

The hormone years... I'll say a prayer for both of you.
 

karrie

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My parents must have been the same generation as your grandparents.

You obviously know the taste difference between strictly pasture grazed beef and alfalfa/grain feed beef. Do you think people today would eat it?



The hormone years... I'll say a prayer for both of you.

Actually, I don't know if I'd be able to tell the difference. Ours were always pastured but I was young enough when we sold the farm that I don't know I'd be able to tell.

As for the hormone years... I keep waiting for her to turn. I really am careful how I say it, but, my daughter is scary angelic. Super considerate, highly conscientious. She has weepy days, and days where she screams at us. days where she's lost her cool and called her dad an ***, stomped off in fits.... but she always gets herself calmed down, collected, comes back and talks it out with apologies. I really thought she'd flip totally from this crazy great kid to a teenage monster, but we're still waiting. I'm sure it will happen. If it doesn't, I have to find out who the hell she belongs to because I can't have made anything that perfect.
 

petros

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Actually, I don't know if I'd be able to tell the difference. Ours were always pastured but I was young enough when we sold the farm that I don't know I'd be able to tell.

As for the hormone years... I keep waiting for her to turn. I really am careful how I say it, but, my daughter is scary angelic. Super considerate, highly conscientious.
I remember it med/well. Sometimes ground would smell like feet depending on green forage or hay.



Mine as just like that too. Sweetest kid ever until....

To keep things simple and not to give myself nightmares, I'll just say that those were the hardest 18 months of parenting I had to deal with.

Stupid thing is, I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
 

JLM

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I am over a decade older. My high school was a pilot program for computer labs. In Grade 8 we got 5 Apple II computers with 64k of ram and 5 1/4" floppy drives.

Young kids................I think the slide rule was invented when I was in grade 8.
 

Dexter Sinister

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... but she always gets herself calmed down, collected, comes back and talks it out with apologies. I really thought she'd flip totally from this crazy great kid to a teenage monster...
Probably not. We had a daughter like that, and we kept waiting for the axe to fall when she was in her mid teens, but it never happened, she's 28 and it seems unlikely to happen now. I'm sure that's because you're doing what we did, always listened, always paid attention and took her seriously even when she was full of nonsense, never stopped talking with her, that's the secret of good parenting, just being there for them. It's not really hard, it just takes some time and attention, and as long as they know you love them and you've got their back and you'll always talk to them about anything, you can't really go wrong.
 

SLM

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It's great. My daughter s away at university and while she calls home regularly (when she is homesick) having something as simple as e-mail allows me to send her a little note when I think of something even if it's just one of my silly puns. I wanted to buy an old French castle but I'm baroque.

Lol. I hear you on the email though, my son lives in Ottawa and until this past summer my daughter was in Kingston. With me being in SWO, between e-mail for longer messages and texting for everyday stuff, it really helps bridge the geographic distance. Phone calls are fine and all, but that ability to instantly send a message about what's going on, to have a conversation in real time regardless of where you are, makes it so much easier to be a part of each other's lives.


I'm 33 years old. I grew up on a cattle farm with a party line and one tv channel, two if the clouds were just right. My mom was working at my grandpa's electronics store when microwaves first started really creeping into local homes.

Now tonight, my husband phoned me from his voice activated Bluetooth to tell me he was stuck in gridlock and would be late for dinner. I looked up the traffic map online and told him exactly what street the traffic snag would clear up at. I put his plate into the microwave to stay relatively warm and then left the kids to eat and do homework while I chatter away online. My daughter is completing her homework on her iPod, she uses Google docs so that her work is accessible no matter where she's at, even though the iPod is an encouraged to go with her to school so that she has constant online resource access at her desk.


It's interesting how quickly we forget that this level of tech is really really new. It's changed so many facets of our lives so drastically.

I think even in the last decade the growth of use of and development of new technologies has advanced by leaps and bounds. And for those growing up in it, I can't imagine what it's like for them, this ever changing world.
 

Cannuck

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The company I worked for in Edmonton was one of the first to get a fax machine. I remember everybody standing around the machine and being amazed as we faxed the first few documents back and forth between head office.