Yes I know, but I was addressing your use of it in post #119. I may have misunderstood you, but I read you as making a distinction I find hard to accept.
My intent in employing that term (You and I) in that post was to (attempt) to clarify the reason why organized religion is being held entirely responsible for acts of violence while the "You and I's" (defined by Spade) are not considered at all... Ironically, that is the very double standard that religion employed to justify (some of) the heinous acts that have been perpetuated by those groups.
The religion is the people and the people are the religion, without the people the religion doesn't exist except as an idea and can't be responsible for anything. Holding organized religion responsible is the same as holding the "You and I" who make it up responsible, and vice versa. And since by far the majority of people will at least claim to believe in the tenets of some organized religion, regardless of how unobservant and uninvolved they may be, I find the distinction between a religion and the people somewhat strained and artificial.
I couldn't agree with you more on this statement, however, my position is that the responsibility boils-down to the individual regardless of the catalyst.
There are a myriad of examples, both historical and contemporary, that were the lightening rods for those situations. Religion justified the Crusades/Inquisition, politics/power fueled the violence associated with Stalin/Pol Pot and an unfavorable court verdict in the Rodney King case catalyzed the wholesale violence in Watts/LA at the time.
The common factor is that terrible acts were committed by individuals that leveraged an event, philosophy, charismatic individual, threat of reprisals, etc, etc to justify an action... That said, vilifying one or two catalysts ignores the "You and I's" in the equation.
That's the distinction Tony Blair tried to make in his debate with Christopher Hitchens about whether or not religion is a force for good in the world. There's a thread about that debate here somewhere. It amounted to arguing that religion is good if you discount all the bad things people do in its name, which as Blair presented it is just a subtle and rather peculiar version of the confirmation bias error in thinking.
I heard only part of that debate but what I did hear was very interesting.. I'll have to find the audio online and listen to the entire discussion.
I'd take that a step further. With true spirituality, religion's not necessary or useful. It just tries to control and direct spirituality to serve other ends.
Religion is a direct extension of spirituality and while there are many differences, there are more commonalities.
Hell, just look at the degree of anger and derision directed at org religion in this thread alone... I can't help but wonder if it was this very mechanism that resulted in events like the Crusades, invasions by the Moors, etc..