I want to end this.
What is a Christian?
A Christian is anyone who seeks to be like Christ -- all who try to admit their shortcomings and have accepted Jesus as a sacrifice for all their sins. They believe He was raised from the dead three days later and ascended into Heaven to be with God the Father. Now, as believers in Christ, we walk the Earth trying to be an example of Christ in all our relationships and interactions with God's creation.
Is this not common between Catholics and Protestants? It doesn't matter what your traditions or picky little interpretations of the Bible are. Everyone sins, and therefore no one can know and understand everything about God. How can we judge one believer from another?
A friend told me once that God reveals Himself differently to different people. We all see different parts of God. For example, I see my husband in a different way than his mother sees him, but together we are able to love him more fully. The same is with God. That's why He uses so many different people from so many different backgrounds in so many different lifestyles and so many different churches, etc. Together we can more fully love Him as fellow believers in Christ -- CHRISTIANS.
Finally, let's not bicker about doctrine. Jesus knew that laws and traditions were important for order, but it's the meaning behind them that saves us, not the laws themselves. If you value the meaning, and you understand and accept it -- whether you're able to follow the laws or not -- you're a Christian.
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You can stop reading now if you want, because I feel like I made my point okay enough -- but I also feel like someone's going to start criticizing my faith because I said you can sin all you want and still be saved. I figured I'd say a little bit about that too, if it's okay. This is how I explain it to the children I care for.
Say you want to be a gymnast. You would probably look at a famous gymnast and say, "WOW! She's great because she went here, and did this, and practiced X amount of times, etc." You'll want to do the same thing. You'll start attempting everything that she did, practicing just as hard and learning all you can, improving and toning up trying to look like her. BUT there will be times that you can't do exactly the same thing she did, and so you won't be able to create a complete carbon-copy of her life and actually become her. The point is that you'll never BE her, but you're still a gymnast.
The same is true for Christians. Christ is our example. We try to be like Him, to learn about Him, to look like Him, to grow in Him. BUT we'll never be a perfect copy of Christ, and yet we're still Christians. It's the journey we must value, and so the times we fail can't steal away our salvation.
If you've accepted Christ, you'll WANT to be like Him. You'll WANT to do the right thing. If you have no interest in being a better person for God, THAT'S when you should doubt your salvation.