Some facts about rape
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prostitutes are brutally raped when they don't get paid
when they get paid they call it normal sex
when they get paid they call it normal sex
I would like to see the drugged drink date rape ads hauled off TV and reworded. "Only 1% of date rapes are ever reported...." Doesn't that sort of encourage a potential rapist if he thinks there's a 99% chance he'll get away with it?
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With the date rape drug is it possible for a woman to rape a guy using viagra to keep the guys shaft hard?
Rape is about power, control, domination. Rape is not about sex. Even a castrated man is capable of sexual assault (he cannot complete the deed of course).
Rape originates in the brain, not in the penis.
Sex is an animal instinct; rape is taking it when you want it against the persons will.
Kiwi, sex may be an animal instinct, but rape isn’t. Rape is rare in the animal kingdom. The male does not want to waste his sperm by raping a female who is not in heat, he will be wasting his sperm that way and miss out the opportunity to reproduce.
The male always seeks a female in heat. He wants to mate with a female in heat, that way he has maximum possibility that his seed will be carried forth.
Indeed, it is remarkable what a male will do to bring the female in heat, rather than raping her (which he could easily do, males in most species are bigger than females).
Thus when male lions take over a pride (having killed or driven away the males), the first thing they want to do is to have sex with the females of the pride. But they don’t do that, females are not in heat.
So they kill all the unweaned cubs. That puts females in heat, females want to mate, then they have sex with the females.
I remember seeing the courting ritual of rhinos. The female leads the male on a long chase; it may last for several kilometers, may last hours. It is a slow chase, the male does not try to catch up to the female, he pretty much follows her at her own pace. Female wants to make sure that the male has the endurance, the stamina; she wants the best genes for her offspring.
After a long and arduous ritual, the female is satisfied, comes fully in heat and the male mates with her. Any time during the courting ritual he could have raped her, but he doesn’t. If the female is not fully in heat, she probably won’t conceive and the male has wasted his seed.
Rape in animal kingdom, while it may occur is rare. As I said, rape is not a crime of sex, but a crime of power. It is very common among humans, but rare among animals.
Kiwi, sex may be an animal instinct, but rape isn’t. Rape is rare in the animal kingdom. The male does not want to waste his sperm by raping a female who is not in heat, he will be wasting his sperm that way and miss out the opportunity to reproduce.
The male always seeks a female in heat. He wants to mate with a female in heat, that way he has maximum possibility that his seed will be carried forth.
Indeed, it is remarkable what a male will do to bring the female in heat, rather than raping her (which he could easily do, males in most species are bigger than females).
Thus when male lions take over a pride (having killed or driven away the males), the first thing they want to do is to have sex with the females of the pride. But they don’t do that, females are not in heat.
So they kill all the unweaned cubs. That puts females in heat, females want to mate, then they have sex with the females.
I remember seeing the courting ritual of rhinos. The female leads the male on a long chase; it may last for several kilometers, may last hours. It is a slow chase, the male does not try to catch up to the female, he pretty much follows her at her own pace. Female wants to make sure that the male has the endurance, the stamina; she wants the best genes for her offspring.
After a long and arduous ritual, the female is satisfied, comes fully in heat and the male mates with her. Any time during the courting ritual he could have raped her, but he doesn’t. If the female is not fully in heat, she probably won’t conceive and the male has wasted his seed.
Rape in animal kingdom, while it may occur is rare. As I said, rape is not a crime of sex, but a crime of power. It is very common among humans, but rare among animals.
There's probably more of those sort of cases than most would imagine. In a lot of "rape" cases it's guilty until proven innocent not withstanding the fact that rape is a despicable crime, when it truly is rape.
If that’s true then why isn’t domestic violence that is about power, control, domination not called rape.
Rape is non consented sex and that’s it
Because domestic violence does not include sex. Rape does include sex, but it is not about sex, it is about power, about domination. Man establishes his power, his control over the woman by having sex against her will. It is not really much more different from robbing her, though obviously much more humiliating and much more damaging to the woman.
And that is why rape has been used as a weapon in war. E.g. in the recent Serbian Bosnian conflict, thousands of Bosnian women were raped by the Serbs, in a clear demonstration of their control over Bosnia.
That is just what I am saying, JLM. If a man is horny, he will find a willing sexual partner, not difficult to do these days.
But a man rapes because he feels powerless, he has the need to establish his manhood, his dominance over somebody. The feeling of inferiority, the sense of powerlessness makes him lash out at the (physically) weaker members of the society, that is women. He may derive some sexual gratification from that, but that is a secondary benefit.
It may be, but it is very difficult to do, I don’t see how it can be managed. The sexual act does not need active cooperation from a woman, but it does need active cooperation from a man.
I suppose a woman could assume a ‘male’ role (I have to be circumspect here, I don’t know what is allowed in the forum and what isn’t) and rape the man in the anus. But as to conventional sex act, I don’t see how a woman can force that on a man.
Oh, it is entirely possible once you get beyond stereotypical male - female roles. No means no regardless of who says it.
If she forces the man to eat viagra then it's possible
I hope you are not saying that rape belongs to women only