Why are you against Gay marriage?

[vinod1975]

Gay marriage

Sanctus may be you are correct , but I am not a Psychologist so really cant comment on this so what ever I felt and I have observed by watching few x rated movies , I wrote and these are my personal views rest have no Idea lem Google it for more :love9:

 

[sanctus]

Sanctus may be you are correct , but I am not a Psychologist so really cant comment on this so what ever I felt and I have observed by watching few x rated movies , I wrote and these are my personal views rest have no Idea lem Google it for more :love9:

I would be very careful about forming opinions based on watching X-rated movies!

 

[vinod1975]

thats good idea and let me also do that....

 

[sanctus]

thats good idea and let me also do that....

Indeed, one of the biggest "lessons" to be learned from X-rated movies is how women are portrayed as purely sexual tools to be used by the men. They undervalue relationships and over-value sex.

 

[vinod1975]

Women in x-rated movies are not force to act women do it on thier own for money and some for fame .................. Any ways we will not talk on this topic ( x - rated movies ) in this thread but yes we might talk on this in diffrent thread and lem me come back from google world....

 

[karrie]

Those children weren't picked out of a "group" and handed to a couple, none of us biological children
have a choice, don't see that as any comparison at all. I was talking about giving a gay couple a child
to adopt. What right has anyone to do that, there should be a choice from the biological parent, or a
biological close relative of the child.

Well then keep it strictly in the realm of adoption. Should a child be allowed to go to conservative christian parents? What if that child turns out to be gay? Or turns out to be an atheist? Or what if a child goes to atheist parents, and turns out to be immensely spiritual? There are many scenarios in which an adopted child may not be able to mesh their beliefs with those of their adoptive parent. And I've never heard anyone complain about those scenarios before, only the homosexual issue.

 

[vinod1975]

The same sex parrents should not be allowed to adopt any child

 

[karrie]

The same sex parrents should not be allowed to adopt any child

based on what exactly?

 

[vinod1975]

what would be the out come , I mean what would be the child future

 

[karrie]

what would be the out come , I mean what would be the child future

Their future would be just as stable as any child of adoption. Many people used to make the same sort of argument against interracial adoption, and it's been shown there that the children are as well adjusted as any other child of adoption.

Plenty of people face challenges in their fmaily situation when they are being brought up. I don't see how being adopted by same sex partners would be any different or any more challenging.

 

[talloola]

Their future would be just as stable as any child of adoption. Many people used to make the same sort of argument against interracial adoption, and it's been shown there that the children are as well adjusted as any other child of adoption.

Plenty of people face challenges in their fmaily situation when they are being brought up. I don't see how being adopted by same sex partners would be any different or any more challenging.

In my opinion it is much different. Interracial adoptions aren't to do with "sexual lifestyle", and there are some strict
laws in the world that don't allow interracial adoptions either, but that probably deals with bringing children from
country to country, as that can become a problem later on as well, at times.

 

[talloola]

Well then keep it strictly in the realm of adoption. Should a child be allowed to go to conservative christian parents? What if that child turns out to be gay? Or turns out to be an atheist? Or what if a child goes to atheist parents, and turns out to be immensely spiritual? There are many scenarios in which an adopted child may not be able to mesh their beliefs with those of their adoptive parent. And I've never heard anyone complain about those scenarios before, only the homosexual issue.

The homosexual issue is "different" and to just be in denial of that point is not constructive.

 

[talloola]

I wasnt aware gay couples COULD adopt legally......can they in Canada?

I don't know, if anyone does, please let us know.

 

[talloola]

Well, biological relatives could also be just as damaging to a kid as adoptive
parents.

Of course they could, but noone has any control over that problem, what I am mentioning would be a
decision by an adoption agency to place a baby/child into a homosexual couples home. I would think
that would be a very "dicey" thing to do, and the child has no "say" in the matter.

 

[canadarocks]

I don't know, if anyone does, please let us know.

i THINK SOMEONE ELSE HAS ALREADY ANSWERED THIS, BuT YES THEY CAN!

 

[canadarocks]

In my opinion it is much different. Interracial adoptions aren't to do with "sexual lifestyle", and there are some strict
laws in the world that don't allow interracial adoptions either, but that probably deals with bringing children from
country to country, as that can become a problem later on as well, at times.

Personally, I don't agree with inter-racial adoptions, i think children do better with people of their own kind.

 

[m_levesque]

When parliament legalised homosexual marriage , it was another sad indictment on the moral fibre of our leaders and therefore that part of the electorate who put them there .

 

[vinod1975]

Their future would be just as stable as any child of adoption. Many people used to make the same sort of argument against interracial adoption, and it's been shown there that the children are as well adjusted as any other child of adoption.

Plenty of people face challenges in their fmaily situation when they are being brought up. I don't see how being adopted by same sex partners would be any different or any more challenging.

What they will teach to thier kid , and who will be mom and who will be papa , how this kid will face the school time

 

[Curiosity]

http://www.populardoctrine.com/2007/01/15/sunday-debate-same-sex-adoption-rights/

I am speechless after reading what has been written here.... but I did find a debate which applies...
whether anyone is interested or not.... on homosexual adoption.

I had no idea there were still people who denied children rights of any kind.... children are color blind and sexuality blind and love is the primary force which allows them to be nurtured and to grow into fulfilled
humans.

Fortunately for all couples of all races and sexual preference, they can create their own children through advocacy of donor programs, and there are no "laws" preventing such.... but to offer an open loving home to an adoptive child
is truly a beautiful thing.

 

[karrie]

What they will teach to thier kid

tolerance, and everything else a parent teaches their children

, and who will be mom and who will be papa

what difference does it make who is mama and who's papa? Plenty of kids grow up without one or the other. Even adopted children.

, how this kid will face the school time

kids get picked on in school regardless. there will always be SOMEthing.

I think parents should be chosen on the basis of their suitability, not their sexual orientation.