"Victimhood rather than stoicism or heroism has become something eagerly publicized, even sought after, in our culture.. To be a victim is in some way to have won, or at least to have got a head start in the great oppression race of life. At the root of this curious development, is one of the most important and mistaken judgements of the social justice movements: that oppressed people (or people who can claim to be oppressed) are in some way better than others, that is some decency, purity or goodness which comes from being part of such a group. In fact, suffering in and of itself does not someone a better person. A gay, female, black or trans person may be as dishonest, deceitful and rude as anybody else."