Selfactivated, who started this thread 7 years ago, was amazed when I told her--we're still in very irregular touch via email--that this thread is still active.
Some of us she likes.She's permanently timed out, I think. She was in a very bad place emotionally 7 years ago, got seriously picked on by some of the lesser lights at CC, and went a little overboard in some of her responses. I don't think she'd come back even if she could, too many bad associations. But for those who are interested, she seems okay now.
I didn't suggest that, certainly she bears some culpability and she knows it, but she also received a lot of petty meanness and cruelty. And not just in the public forums.Oh yes, I remember, it was very one sided. She bore no responsibility at all.... :roll: