I once had a manager who was a Pakistani Muslim, very devout and deeply committed to his faith. He was also a very kind, gentle, compassionate, thoughtful, scholarly man, one of the best managers I've ever encountered, and the man after whom I modelled my own management style when I got to that level. He knew I didn't share his views, and we had many long and thoughtful discussions of these matters, from which I certainly learned a lot, and I've always hoped he did too. I had no feeling that he thought I should be beheaded. That man will forever be the face of Islam to me, and I perceive much of Islam's current public face as a terrible perversion, the same as I perceive most fundamentalist Christian stuff as a terrible perversion. That man, and his version of Islam as I came to understand it, certainly merit respect.
I am deeply grateful that I knew him. Without his influence, I would have quite a different, and probably much less tolerant, view of much of what I see and hear in the news.