...and your opinion is as valid as anyone elses here Josephine, especially since you have experienced either torture or child abuse, as you mentioned.It's only my opinion. To use your analogy...I do believe that raping a child is a worse violation than torturing an adult...but then I could be biased, as I only have knowledge about one of them.
Personally I 'sit on the fence' on the issue of the death penalty. I do feel that some crimes merit such extreme measures, yet the knowledge that over 122 death row inmates have been freed since the 70's, because of indisputable evidence such as DNA, or other, as uncomfortable as it is I can't seem to alight from the fence one way or another.