Then you are a devote Catholic.. because I feel many lack the morals and proper upbringing of the past, the strong family values and convictions that provide a good home for children these days.
That's just my personal observation, no stats to back it up.. but I see to many families where both parents are working, or single parents and the children are not given the proper attention and moral upbringing they should be given.
No, I'm not devout. The way we have structured our family has nothing to do with our religion, it has to do with practicality. We knew what kind of family life we want, what kind of kids we want to raise, and we planned together how to achieve that. We look like a traditional family because that's what fit us. I know lots of parents who are raising families just as well as we are, without following our same template, because they've done the same. Set a goal, and form a plan to reach it.