ah Durka, he's gorgeous! And so is your girlfriend...I love red hair! I'm working in making mine red...have to go by degrees so people won't realize it's not natural...
as an aside: If a cat poops/pees outside it's litter box there is a definate reason. Either dirty litter box, unacceptable litter or medical condition. Cat's are fastidiously clean at all times.
I just got back from the shelter and there were 8 kittens there! Highly unusual! One of the kittens was a smoke. Grey/silver fur with black tips. I've never seen a cat with such a drastic smoke colour before. Mostly they're quite black until you pet them and the fur moves. This little beauty looked like a grey wolf! No word of a lie or exageration! I'm going to try to go tomorrow and get pictures. You simply won't believe how this cat looks!
Durka, I"d love to see pictures of your other feline cats...