just moved in. need a social life

Dixie Cup

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Hi I've just moved into Edmonton. living near Whyte avenue. I am from england and my wife lives a 12 hour drive north of here. people at work don't seem to socialise or speak much. Anyone out there fancy gaining a new friend? or got any suggestions as to how i might make some? I tried joining a book club but their email got sent back... i'm considering volunteering but dont knwo what to do

Welcome to Edmonton! It's a great city to live in and you will enjoy your time here. I agree that it's sometimes difficult to meet people and it does take time.

I've lived here, on and off, for 25 years. I initially moved here after my parents broke up many moons ago. It was a very difficult transition for my brothers and I but we had the advantage of still being in school. Unlike a previous poster, after high school, I lost contact with everyone I met. Don't know where they are or what they're doing.

I found, actually, that the friends I have made I've met at work. While I'm not shy, I do take a while to become comfortable in most situations. It's funny, when I moved to Vancouver one time, I started a job and it took about 6 months or so for me to actually socialize with co-workers. After they got to know me, they told me that they thought I was "stuck up" and knew now that I wasn't - just "reserved". So, maybe there are more of us "reserved" people out there than I thought.

Any hoo - patience is the key. For the most part, people here are really friendly. Often you need to take the initiative (and I find that difficult, thus the "stuck up" thing???) dunno.

I work right down town (Bell Tower) so it'd be difficult to meet u for coffee for for lunch. You'd likely want to meet someone closer to your age in any event :)

There are lots of volunteer opportunities as well. Edmonton is known for it's volunteers too I might add. You could contact a Edmonton Volunteer Agency by calling 211 for community services and they should be able to assist you. Volunteering, as you know, can put in in touch with like-minded people so you have something in common right off the bat!!

Good Luck!!

Dixie