Yes, when we were 18 we idealists and we were hornier than ten peckered toads, which kinda clouded our judgment. Now that we are older and hopefully wiser, we see reality does not lend itself to idealism so well. Also, I have found that, youth is wasted on the young, (ie: all them beautify young bodies wasted on dumb young men who don't have a clue - life is cruel.)