This theory works in situations in your private life but not in the workplace. I happen to intensely dislike conspiracy flakes,so if one comes into my place of business I can ignore him? I agree with your point about the marriage issue,but only if the person was hired before the law changed,and there is another preacher available. If you are hired now and refuse to marry gays,then you should be in the pogey line with this cop and maybe a few posties.I believe you shouldn't be forced to do something that is against your morals. So if you dont want to defend an abortion clinic, you shouldn't have to. If a preacher doesn't want to marry a gay couple, he shouldn't have to. Thats why we live in a free country.