that's where skeptics/atheists confuse me. How do you hate something you don't think exists? Odd bit of thinking frankly.
Your quite right it isn't actually god I hate; since, as you point out, there really isn't one.
I was raised in a fiercely religious household (probably fanatical) and what I hate are the things (concepts) placed in me at such a young age. I try and escape them with reason and logic but always they plague me - a horrible horrible creature called god. It is a fantastic beast of twisted childhood memories, false dreams and warped logic; lies, deceit and fallacies - I truly hate god.
I believe very much in the freewill of people and, as Sartre and others correctly argue, a god and human free will are incompatible. And this is the rub of it all. A god can live in your head; placed there at a tender age; that it clouds all reason and judgment; it robs us of our very humanity - god, the destroyer of man the destroyer of free will. And when I look at the teachings, the rants and raves of religions founders, all I see are the attempts to do that very thing, to limit our capacity by their narrow vision of us!
Yes, I hate god. So much so that should it come to pass that I am standing before him, I will spit and piss on him and long for oblivion.
I do not care for kings, tyrants, nations, gods or government. I am an anarchist and I would trade an eternity of servitude for a moment of freedom.
"It is not without good reason that governments hold the belief in God to be an essential condition of their power" - Bakunin