RE: Americas Next Top Mod
I don't like pop culture. The reason is it's based on a series of fads, and isn't concrete enough to build a stable society upon, which kind of explains our society. I won't date women that subscribe to this bullsh*t. Me, I'm a real man. The kind that can fix a car, take care of his family, voice his opinions, and stands his ground through hell or high water. I'm no metrosexual pritty boy, as that's a total joke. The reason I mainly wouldn't ever date these young women my age, is because everything is a fad to them. Their personality, their interests, behaviour, and even boyfriends. When you fall in love with a person, you fall in love with everything they are, and if they are always dynamic and changing, it's easy for to lose interest in that person. We can't just be doing what works for us at the time all of our lives. We have to create our own identity by developing our beliefs, opinions, personality, and interests for ourselves. We have to focus on what's great about ourselves, and not be so quick to adopt what appeals to others. I think the majority of people nowadays have no identity, and can now be generalized into very distinguishable groups that are pop culture stereotypes. It's even in our advertising. They aren't selling products anymore, they're selling lifestyles.
The funny thing, is that deep down all women desire a man that is like me. I see it all the time, and I'm constantly being hit on by women that are in serious relationships, but not single ones. The reason is that i'm everything the average guy lacks, and they don't see it until they are in a relationship where thier boyfriends lack what I have to offer. However, I'd never start a relationship with a women who leaves her man for a better man, because there is no way of telling if i'm what she wants, or just another fad. All I'm looking for in a women is someone who has their own opinions, a healthy life philosophy, and the desire to please me, and I her in return. I have yet to meet this woman.
Finding real people in general, is getting harder and harder every day.