A friend of mine walked in on his neighbour, whose wife had left him, who was drinking with a loaded pistol on the table. The guy said he was going to shoot himself and asked if he should shoot himself in the forehead or the temple. My friend said neither, he said "put it in you mouth and shoot up through you pallet". And he added, "go out into the forest to do it because if you do it in the house, I will have to clean up your fukking mess". Tough love, man. He didn't do it. He still lives in the same house 20 odd years later.