hmmmmmm..... am I the same person in real life as I am on the net? No, definitely not. I'm testier. What I say isn't as well thought out. There's no delete button in real life for ignorant hurtful words. There's no pause before I hit 'send', on some comment that serves no real purpose other than to let people know they've annoyed me. I TRY to be who I am on here. I try very hard. But, it's a different environment, and much like any social setting, we adapt a bit.
note to self