Live and let live and mind yer own bedroom business and nevermind everone else's.
Don't be rediculous. Every once in a while, there is a woman who is minding her own bedroom, business and neverminding everyone else, but she is not being treated respectfully. Similarly, a spouse or Gay person could be 'neverminding' according to your statement and still run into problems simply because they are recommended for the "neverminded", Gay, homosexual, a wife, colleague, peer, or other.
Allow me to introduce the concept that women, as well as men, homosexuals and others, can mind their own bedrooms, business and lives ... without threat. They appreciate everyone else's ... nevermindedness.
Eh.